In Relief Society we talked about how it is easy to view God's declaration to Adam, "In the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread," (Genesis 3:19) as a punishment. But one of the sisters mentioned how the choice of Adam and Eve to partake of the fruit of the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil and thereby leave the Garden of Eden was essentially choosing progress. In the Garden of Eden, with all things provided for their sustenance, Adam and Eve could not have children and could not experience joy. Although they would both have to work hard just to get by outside the Garden, many opportunities and blessings were opened to them that they would not have had inside the Garden. The Gospel Principles manual linked to above (where it says Work and Personal Responsibility) states, "Work is essential to each of us for growth, character development, and many satisfactions that the idle never know."
Along with this thought, I would like to share part of the story by Spencer W. Kimball related by one of the speakers in Sacrament meeting today. In this story, President Kimball tells of a friend who very proudly showed him his new, luxurious car; his new, fancy home; his grand estate. President Kimball reminded his friend that, “The earth is the Lord’s and the fulness thereof” (1 Cor. 10:26). However, this friend felt that he was entitled to his belongings because of his efforts alone, and that he owed nothing to the Lord. The friend later passed away, and President Kimball recalled,
"Later I saw that same estate, yellow in grain, green in lucerne, white in cotton, seemingly unmindful of him who had claimed it.
"My dear brethren and sisters, I testify to all of you that tithing is indeed a great blessing and a law for our benefit. Let us draw our family circles around us and again read the promise that the Lord testified came from the Father, a promise none of us can afford to be without: “Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the Lord of Hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing that there shall not be room enough to receive it” (Mal. 3:10)."Work is necessary and important, but it is essential to keep in mind the source of our blessings. Living the commandments and paying an honest tithe are ways to show gratitude to God, and the blessings we are promised for doing so are real and many.
Finally, a few thoughts about teaching children to work....
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- Start early. If you teach your children from an early age to do household chores, it will be a normal part of their lives, and it won't be such a "chore" to assign them responsibilities.
- Make it fun. Little children like to help. Take advantage of this! I remember my mother starting my sister and I folding washcloths and hand towels when we were preschool-aged. It was enjoyable, especially because we were "helping" Mom, who was working alongside us.
- Kill two birds with one stone. Working together as a family offers a great opportunity to get to know each other and to talk about important things without it feeling like a lecture, especially to adolescent kids.
- There is more than one "right" way. By this, I mean that just because you have always done a certain task a certain way, doesn't mean that it's the only way it can be done. Be flexible and let your children figure out their own way to fold their socks. It won't be the end of the world if it's not how you would have done it, or if it takes longer than it might have otherwise!
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